Monday, November 9, 2020

AITA for ignoring uninvited guests?


Two years ago, we moved to warm southern state that many people visit, especially during the cold winter months. We live here now, this is our home, we work full time and have lives. I have been very clear that we do not have room for houseguests. Recently some friends informed me that they will be coming to "visit" us (their words) but not to worry, they have rented a nearby condo. FOR A MONTH. Now I am doing everything in my power to pack up my evenings and weekends with appointments and events to avoid the inevitable constant barrage of questions about going out with them or coming over here or going over to their rented condo. They don't know anyone else in this area and have never visited this area before. I'm furious, while I can't prevent people from coming to the area, I feel very encroached upon. They did not ask and were not invited. I plan to go about my life as I normally would have informed my partner that I do not intend to alter my life in any way to accommodate these uninvited guests. AITA?EDIT: thank you for all your comments. So, to edit, yes I admit that friends was the wrong word to use. It's my husband's friend and his wife, I merely tolerate. These "friends" have drinking problems, fight in public and are rude to waitstaff. And I have been insulted by these people numerous times about food I've made them, the decor in my home and my weight. (He's also hit on me - jk of course). So perhaps my reluctance is more of a defense mechanism. Thanks for helping me see that :) via /r/AmItheAsshole https://ift.tt/3n9NHjO

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