Am I crazy for this?

I just had another argument with my gf. And I’m just honestly confused. We’ve been together 8 years. I’m 25 and she’s 23. She’s been talking to me about marriage lately. But after tonight, I’m just honestly not sure. We just got home from being out all day. We went to Menards and got a few Christmas decorations because she’s been excited to do that. Unfortunately, I was in a sour mood because we have several outlets in our house right now that currently aren’t working. Plus our water tank finally gave out on us last week. Just certain things ruined my mood today. I’m never a moody person, sometimes I just have bad days. I sat on the couch to answer my friends text message. She said she’s on vacation and she’s worried because there’s a hurricane rolling in. I sat for maybe a minute before I opened the message to respond and my gf immediately asks me who I’m talking too. Now this has always been an issue. She constantly asks me who I’m talking too and what I’m talking to them about. We have had so many arguments about how she needs to respect my privacy. I give her all the privacy in the world. I just gave her look, and asked her why she needed to know. She claims it’s because she just wants to start conversation. I tell her she can literally talk to me about anything, we’ve been together so long, why start a conversation with me by asking me what I’m talking to this person about? It just seems strange to me. Well it annoyed me, and with me being in a sour mood over house stuff, I asked her why she needed to know, and it blew up from there. She got mad at me because I gave her attitude. She called me an ignorant bitch and then yelled at me and threw my phone across the room. I told her this isn’t normal, it’s messed up. She tries to argue that couples do this, this is normal. I told her it’s not normal. We have things to work out. And somehow she doesn’t realize this is an actual issue. This happens every fight. The constant insults. I don’t get it. Am I crazy for simply asking for privacy? via /r/actuallesbians https://ift.tt/34w5nzF