AITA for doing family Halloween stuff without my bf?

I have been telling my bf all week about my Halloween plans since we weren’t going trick or treating this year. We planned on going shooting in the morning then cleaning up the house, decorating cookies and carving pumpkins and I was going to make a homemade lasagna for everyone. We all decided to get animal onesies to wear instead of costumes to be comfy but still somewhat dressed up.My bf tells me a few days before that he has to go to his uncles to watch the game with him since he canceled on him last Sunday to stay home with me and my daughter because I asked for one day on the weekend. I reminded him that it was Halloween. He told me he couldn’t cancel on his uncle this time. I mentioned trying to get to the pumpkins before he left so he could do it we us but it didn’t all go as planned.Saturday morning we left a lot later than we expected to go shooting so we ended up getting back to the house later than I planned so I didn’t have as much time as I wanted. When he got home he went up to the room while I started dinner, did the dishes, and cleaned the entire down stairs. He left at 4pm to go to his uncles.6:30 rolls around and I am thinking he might be home soon so my sister, daughter and I all start craving our pumpkins. Once that was done we started on the cookies. Dinner was done about 7ish. Once all that was done I was exhausted so my daughter and I put on a movie and laid on the couch.My bf comes home closer to 8:30 and is upset that we didn’t wait for him. I told him that it wasn’t reasonable to expect us to sit around and do nothing while we waited for him to get home. That didn’t seem fair to my daughter because he is the one that chose to do something else. He said that waiting until 8:30 wouldn’t have made a difference even though we wouldn’t have been done with everything until 10:30 at night which wasn’t something anyone of us wanted to do. He felt like I decided to exclude him by not waiting for him but I felt like I wasn’t go to stop the night I had planned because his plans changed. He made me feel bad about it and like a total asshole for doing all the family stuff without him.Even though we talked and worked it out I can’t help but feel like I ended up being the asshole in this situation.So reddit I am an asshole for deciding not to wait? via /r/AmItheAsshole https://ift.tt/3kOhe1J